Consequences
Natural and
Logical Consequences
Sometimes
we have difficulty seeing the difference between consequences and punishment.
A consequence can be natural or logical. For example, if you cut your
finger, it will bleed and it will hurt -- natural conseqences. A logical
consequence of cutting your finger might include someone reviewing proper
cutting practices with you. You will no doubt do that mental review without
prompting. There can be both natural and logical conseqences to actions,
and more than one consequence for each act.
Punishment
is usually inflicted by someone outside the situation. Behaviorally, it
is intended to stop or lessen an act, but in practice, it often serves
as an escape valve for the person who feels offended or responsible for
the well being of a person or group. Upset by the cut finger, a parent
or teacher may verbalize feelings, expressing anguiish by saying, "That
was stupid," or "What were you thinking? You know better than to use a
knife that way." In addition, someone might refuse to let you use a knife
again until ... These responses, rather than natural or logical, appear
punitive. They are one-sided venting of emotion, often put the listener
on the defensive, increase the intensity of emotions and do not lead to
better understanding of cutting practices, and tend to damage rather than
build trust.
The following
examples frame logical responses to common classroom actions. To work
effectively as consequences, they need to be used dispassionately, without
verbal remonstrance or blame. Example: A student shoves in line. The teacher
says "Oops, let's move to the back of the line," or "Please walk with
me so the shoving stops." The poor choice is circumvented, noted, alleviated,
but the student is not punished, belittled or given undue attention for
misbehavior.
- If you
push or shove to get ahead in line, then you go to the end of the line.
- If you
fail to put materials away you must practice putting those materials
away for the rest of the week - or you will be instructed with lessons
in stewardship.
- If you
fall out of a desk or tip the chair, then you lose the chair until you
are prepared to use it appropriately.
- If you
vandalize the classroom or school you must make restitution.
- If you
hurt others then you must make an honest apology and practice self control.
- If you
talk back then you must make an honest apology and practice communicating
feelings honestly and respectfully.
- If you
use obscene language then you must make an honest apology and work on
socially appropriate vocabulary words to express your feelings and needs.
- If you
do not come to class prepared, then you cannot earn extra credit for
that day.
- If you
are careless or do messy work then it must be done over.
- If you
do not do your work in class you must make arrangements to do it after
school or at break time.
- If you
talk out of turn during class discussion you will not receive an answer.
- If you
act up on the bus, then you must find your own way to school.
- If you
do not do your work you must make it up and assist another who is having
trouble. (In some cases it will be important to do some fact finding
as to reasons for failure to complete assignments).
- If you
baby talk then others will not respond to you.
- If you
borrow materials from me you must learn how I would care for them and
return them as I wish.
- If you
abuse materials you have borrowed, you must leave something of value
as collateral in future lending requests.
- If you
verbally fight on the playground then you and the other person must
sit together and watch others for the remained or the play period.
- When it
is obvious that two people have shared answers on an independent task,
then the earned earned points will be divided in half and shared by
both students and prove it was learned.
- If you
disrupt a special class you will temporarily lose the privilege of participating
until you have yourself under control.
- If you
steal from another student then you must return the stolen object plus
loan the other person something of equal value for the duration of the
day.
- If you
refuse to accept the consequences of your behavior then you lose the
privilege of being an Honor Student for the duration of the day. In
addition, you may receive assistance in learning and practicing self
control.
- If you
dawdle in the restroom then you will not be allowed to leave the room
alone.
- If you
disrupt others during class instruction time, then you will be moved
to an isolation area area in the classroom until self composure and
self discipline returns.
- If you
misuse classroom equipment you will lose the privilege of using them
until able to show stewardship skills.
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