Tolerance

Are human beings tolerant as a rule?

Last Days of Socrates
by Jacques-Louis David, 1787 [in
Metropolitan Museum of Art]

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We like to think of ourselves as tolerant, understanding,
attuned to others around us. Those are positive qualities and important
to teaching. We do not like to believe that we are inhospitable, judgmental
or hostile.
The size of the chasm between reality and our hope of humane behavior
is especially important to assess when we are teaching. Never is that
sense of self and desire to appreciate and love others more important
than when we are working with students with special needs. I am reluctant
to share my own personal experiences of ineptitude, but I think it may
serve a purpose.
I wanted to make a difference for others. I was in foster care
for several years, and felt that my foster mother had made a remarkable
change in my prospects for success through her acceptance and
diligence. As a way of repaying some of that good fortune, I wanted
to adopt children. I picked my future daughter up at the DES office
and took her home for the first trial visit. She was an adorable
youngster of seven with Down's. She had big blue eyes, a brown
pixie cut, an infectious smile, and she was Caucasian. She was
the third child I was adopting and the first one who looked rather
like me.
By the third day, I noticed a disturbing difference in the way
I spoke of her. I heard myself tell others, every time I introduced
her, that I was adopting her. In the first two adoptions, I was
adamant about not differentiating which was my birth child, yet
this time I pointed it out. I suddenly realized that I did not
want others to think I was this child's real mother. I was acting
ashamed and feeling prejudice.
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Most prejudice is subtle and masked. As we note in the
development of self, it takes a long time for most of us to move outside
of ourselves enough to realize that others do not feel as we feel -
that someone really does love a different color, different food. We
are so immersed in our own experiences, family life, rituals and pastimes
that those who eat, dress, sleep or talk in a different way may be startling,
even anxiety producing. People who have very different speech or behavior
may upset us enough that we are aware of our disquiet and biases.
Tolerance is a special gift we give ourselves and others.
We may have strong biases for or against those who are part of our common
experiences without being clearly aware of our attitudes and feelings.
When we recognize feelings, emotions, expectations, norms more clearly,

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A human being is
a part of the whole that we call the universe, a part limited in
time and space. He [she] experiences himself, his thoughts and feelings,
as something separated from the rest -- a kind of optical illusion
of his consciousness. This illusion is a prison for us, restricting
us to our personal desires and to affection for only the few people
nearest us. Our task must be to free ourselves from the prisons
by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living beings
and all of nature. -
Albert Einstein |
If we could read the secret history
of our enemies, we should find in each man's life, sorrow and suffering
enough to disarm all hostility. - H.W. Longfellow

Concepts in multicultural and bilingual education
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Multicultural Ed
Approach |
Major components of a culture
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Can you define these?
multicultural education
macroculture
microculture
native language emphasis
scaffolded instruction
reciprocal teaching
Sheltered English
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Help individuals gain greater self understanding
Provide cultural and ethnic alternatives
Provide skills, attitudes and knowledge to function in ethnic
culture and the mainstream
Reduce pain of discrimination and lessen disenfranchisement
Master essential content in desired arenas
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world view
values
styles
language
heritage
dynamic system that changes continuously
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You learn to love by loving . . . Begin
as a mere apprentice and the very power of love will lead you on to
become a master in the art. - Frances of Sales
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Assessment - The BOLD
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The Bilingual Oral Language Development Inventory
for Elementary Students(BOLD)
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This form can be used to record observations of a student's performance
in the primary language and in English. A plus (+) should be recorded
for each communicative behavior that is performed effectively;
a minus (-) should be recorded for each communicative behavior
in which a deficiency is noted.
Bilingual Oral Language Development
Child's Name |
Birth date |
Age: |
First Language |
Second Language |
Age at 2L acquisition
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Communicative Behavior
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First Language
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Second Language
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1. Comments on own actions |
1. |
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2. Comments on others' actions |
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3. Describes experiences accurately |
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4. Describes events sequentially
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5. Attends to the speaker |
5. |
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6. Follows directions |
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7. Initiates interactions |
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8. Takes turns during conversation
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8. |
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9. Maintains topic |
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10. Answers questions |
10. |
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11. Requests attention |
11. |
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12. Requests information |
12. |
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13. Requests actions |
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14. Requests clarification |
14. |
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15. Expresses needs |
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16. Expresses feelings |
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17. Describes plans |
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18. Supports viewpoints |
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19. Describes solutions |
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20. Expresses imagination |
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Mattes, L.J. & Omark, D. R. (1984) Speech
and language assessment for the bilingual handicapped. San Diego:
College Hill. [This form may be reproduced for nonprofit educational
use]. Full explanation also available in Wood text, p. 68. |
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Additional Assessments
Multicultural Self-report Inventory (Slade, J.
C. and Conoley, C. W. (1989). Teaching Exceptional Children
22(1), p. 62.
Equity in Education
assessment site
Woodcock-Munoz
Multiple links
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As a mother at the risk of her life
watches over her only child, so let everyone cultivate a boundlessly
compassionate mind toward all being. - Buddha

Encouraging proficiency in a student's first
language
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Reflect the various cultural groups in the school district by
providing signs in the main office and elsewhere that welcome
people in the different languages of the community.
Encourage students to use their primary language around the school.
Provide opportunities for students from the same ethnic group
to communicate with one another.
Recruit tutors who speak the primary language.
Provide books written in the various languages of students in
the school and have them available in the library and in the classrooms.
Incorporate various languages in the greetings, notes home, work
pages, newsletters of the district.
Provide multilingual signs throughout the school, in buses, etc.
Display objects and art of various cultures throughout the school.
Create study units that incorporate a student's primary language.
Encourage students to write articles, poetry, etc. in the primary
language and incorporate them in school publications.
Invite the minority community to become more involved in school
meetings, policies, as an active presence in the school. - from
Wellington, 1988
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We always affirm with conditions. I affirm
the world on condition that it gets to be the way Santa Claus told me
it ought to be. But affirming it the way it is -- that's the hard thing!
-Joseph Campbell

Reviewing our own actions and intentions isn't easy, but it is crucial
work.
In the early
1990's attention was paid to gender discrimination in the schools. Teachers
responded initially, that they treated girls and boys the same. In fact,
in most classrooms the treatment of youngsters was not equal in any way.
We found that teachers called on boys more, listened to their answers
longer and corrected their responses less than girls. We also found that
a boy of color received less positive reinforcement than a Caucasian boy,
and that a girl of color received the least attention and support of anyone
in the classroom. Teachers often had to see taped evidence of their own
behavior to believe the findings.
Until the
late 1970s, classroom research meant watching the teacher rather than
the interactions and behaviors of students. Even the effective schools
movement scrutinized the teacher rather than students. When we began to
watch interactions between students and teachers, we saw many instances
where teachers initiated discipline problems by the ways they behaved.
In your observations, have you seen teachers react differently to a child
who is well dressed? a child with tattoos? a kid who does not bathe? a
youth with a different ethnic background? Most of the time, we are so
busy proclaiming that we treat all children the same that we are not able
to recognize our own biases.
Our jokes often speak aloud the biases we keep hidden. Do you tell
ethnic jokes -- blond jokes, quadriplegic jokes? Fat girl jokes? How about
red neck, lawyer, mother-in-law stories?
Great literature reminds us that we must understand who we are and
how we behave in order to be cognizant of others. Of course, this journey
to self and others is a paradox, for it is in being with others that we
understand self, and it is in fully understanding self that we are empowered
to move beyond curiosity or initial fear of others to empathy and compassion.

This next section provides several exercises to facilitate self assessment
of tolerance or bias. Some of them will be useful tools you can adapt
in your work with students.
To complete this assignment successfully, you should:
- Study the assignment carefully
- Enter your response(s) in the space(s) provided
- Fill in your Name and E-mail address
- Send the Assignment
Assessing
the self 
[50 points]
1. Identify a group you dislike or distrust (need
help? flag burners, welfare recipients, reactionary rednecks, politicians,
rapists, homeless, self-righteous, a religious sect, skin heads, taggers,
gang members, kids who shoot kids, lawyers, teachers, doctors)
2. Genuinely try to see each group you named as they might see themselves.
( List adjectives)
3. If it is a group bound by a belief system, list some of the reasons
they may have taken their stances. If it is an ethnic group with a common
set of actions, try to find what their culture or language might do to
set up the behaviors. Example: Navajo children are taught to be respectful
by not making eye contact; the Spanish language is set up so that things
happen rather than blaming people for accidents - milk spills.
4. Look for a continuum of beliefs in a group and identify with it.
(Need help? religious affiliations, the NRA, Republicans, Animal Rights
Groups, Green Peace, Democrats, Gay Rights Activists, Pro Choice groups,
Pro Life groups)
5. What would you have to change in your life if you felt as this
group feels?
6. What would they have to change to see life as you see it?
7. Can belief systems make people intolerant?
8. How would you begin the process of developing acceptance for this
group of people?
9. How would you begin a conversation to help them see your life view?
Bring tolerance closer
to home. What is it that your spouse, child, roommate, sister, father
does that you just can't stand? Try going through steps 4-9 with respect
to this set of behaviors. [25 points]
Bring tolerance closer
to the school. What is it that students do that drives you crazy? Try
going through steps 4-9 with respect to this set of behaviors. [25 points]
Is there one kind
of student you don't want in your classroom? How about a youngster who
can't hear? How about one who is nonresponsive? Are you worried about
a child who has seizures? Are you intolerant of a kid who can't or won't
sit still? What can you do to see the child you describe, from their point
of view or as the parent see him or her? [25 points]
GOALS
for increasing tolerance and compassion
This is a great time to set some personal goals. Upon
completion you may send a note stating that you set goals, or share them
with the instructor. E-mail Janne.Ellsworth@nau.edu
I will be more compassionate and understanding
of myself. I will begin by |
I will be more compassionate and understanding
of another. I will begin by |
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Research in sociology suggests that getting to know those with whom
we are intolerant makes us more accepting. Did you consider those dynamics
in developing a goal for yourself?
Research on ego development suggests that maturity increases our ability
to see what others see; to "walk a day in their moccasins"
and thus to understand them. Does this impact your goals?
Materials
Let's begin with web based materials you may want to review. This site
http://www.humanities
has SIX activity sets to sharpen awareness of Hispanic and American influences
and intermingling at border communities. Two are directly related to this
module:
Activity set four: RELIGION
Activity set five: PEOPLE
Web site for getting material to learn Spanish
through music
Now, locate two other web sites that present methods or materials for
enhancing emotional intelligence, foster understanding and tolerance of
others, or provide tools and skills for working with students who have
limited English Proficiency. Share your "finds" in WebCT. [25
points]
Interested in a class? NAU has a graduate level BME course on the web.
Click
here to investigate course offerings.
Teaching Characteristics that Facilitate working with Culturally
and Linguistically Diverse Youth |
Desire to work with youngsters |
Knowledge of varied languages and cultures
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Ability to teach English as a second language |
Ability and desire to work with parents and engage
in team building |
Understanding of the importance to find, utilize or
develop nonbiased assessments |
Can and does develop methods and materials to facilitate
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Activities
for increasing self awareness of cultural impacts
to increase tolerance and compassion
1. Write an autobiography that is a history of your hair.
Include influences from family, culture, peers, media, self comfort. If
available, include pictures in a timeline, showing changes. [50 points]
2. Make a string of paper dolls. On each doll, draw or
place a hat that represents the influence of one of the groups to which
you belong. You may use some of the group distinctions listed below, or
make your own. [25 points] Describe or list the characteristics
that contributed to your hat designs. [25 points]
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Family
Sibling order
Role in family
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Gender
Sex role
Intimacy
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Religion
Rituals
Relationship to life force and nature
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Social class
Peer identification
Regional influences
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Talents and gifts
Ability /strengths
Special needs
Personality traits
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Culture
Family Heritage
Racial background
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Books
Anaya, R. A. (1979). Tortuga. Berkeley, CA: Editorial Just Publications,
Inc.
Potok, C. (1967). The chosen. NY: Simon & Schuster.
Deloria, E. C. (1988). Waterlily. Lincoln, NE: University of Nebraska
Press.
Erdrich, L. (1986). The beet queen. NY: Henry Holt & Co.
Fuentes, C. (1985). The old gringo. NY: Farrar, Staus & Giroux.
Kenzaburo, O. (1994). The pinch runner memorandum. London: M.E.
Sharpe.
Kozol, J. (1988). Rachel and her children: Homeless families in America.
NY: Crown Publishers.
Kozol, J. (1995). Amazing grace: The lives of children and the conscience
of a nation. NY: Crown.
Mankiller, W., & Wallis, M. (1993). Mankiller: A chief and her
people. NY: St. Martin's Press.
Morrison, T. (1988). Beloved. NY: Plume.
Nichols, J. (1974). The Milagro beanfield war. NY: Holt, Rinehart
and Winston.
Ng. R.M. (1993). Bone: A novel. NY Hyperion.
Rechy, J. (1993). The miraculous day of Amalia Gomez. NY: Arcade.
Tan, A. (1989). The joy luck club. NY: G.P.Putnam's Son.
Movies and Videos:
To Kill a Mockingbird
West Side Story
El Norte
The Grapes of Wrath
The Joy Luck Club
The Milagro Beanfield War
Stand and Deliver
Malcolm X
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