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Balance of Power

Control shifts back and forth constantly in the classroom and in relationships. As Glasser (1984) discusses in his book, Control Theory, sometimes the struggle for control occurs because of a perceived or real need. He lists human needs as:
    survival [food, air, water, shelter]
    belonging [security, comfort, legitimate membership in a group or community]
    power [sense of importance, stature, mattering to others]
    fun [having a good time, emotional stimulation]
    freedom [self direction, right to choose, responsibility].

Some of the most frustrating occurrences in the school day are a result of the student or teacher feeling powerless or out of control.

Examples
Teacher
Student
Yelling or shouting
Punishing
Bawling student out
Not listening
Talking during instruction
Making faces or mimicking

 

Many defense mechanisms protect the need to feel in control.

Click here to do a self survey on self control.

 

When upset, anxious or angry, we tend to become defensive. The following chart provides examples of common defenses.

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Defenses

accusing
intellectualizing
denying
attacking or defying
intimidating
glaring
complying
surliness

rationalizing
judging
explaining
being smug
withdrawing
laughing
pouting
sarcasm
projecting
moralizing
quibbling
minimizing
silence
grinning
threatening
flattering
blaming
analyzing
interrogating
evading
shouting
staring
joking
manipulating

This list is amusing since these behaviors are present in nearly every interaction. You may want to print out this list and monitor the next gathering of adults to see how frequently these defenses occur. Your findings may suggest that feeling in control is an important and pervasive feeling.

It can be enlightening to ask someone to monitor an hour of interactions in the classroom, observing the number of times defenses are used, the defenses of specific students and which students elicit defensive maneuvers in the teacher.

Gain Control of Control Issues

Emotions trigger defenses. When we feel anxious, we engage in controlling behaviors. Anger also triggers these feelings and thus, the behaviors or reactions. This is called the "fight-flight" response.

Click on the rage button to find out your hostility quotient. mad gorilla

This next illustration provides a guide to gaining control of our fight and flight reactions.

 

Strategies for Coping wtih Hostility chart

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Glasser, W. (1984) Control theory: a new explanation on how we control our lives. New York: Harper & Row.


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