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This is generally a very stable age/stage.
The
small muscle coordination is consolidating, making reading and writing
easier.
Physical
health is usually good with fewer illness and reported aches and
pains.
The
child is typically expansive and may have more accidental injuries
- broken bones, etc.
Often
enjoys dirty words or smutty stories, though usually secretive and
less comfortable in sharing with adults.
Interest
in sexuality continues, but is typically covert.
Large
muscle coordination has become a "joy" with the child doing tricks
on the bike, gym specialties like hand springs, flips, etc. and
outdoor activities are usually seen as fascinating and alluring.
Physical
play may take on gender specific characteristics.
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Industry
vs. Inferiority
When
the child, in expansive moods, takes on too much there is often
self recrimination. In the new-found ability to see self as others
might, there is a tendency to overdramatize failure.
In
concert with new horizons, the child frequently has great beginnings
and loses steam before completion.
It
is helpful for adults to assist in providing energy toward the end
so that the excitement does not end in despair and tears.
The
child has often reached an emotional plateau with fewer fears, and
less focus on the macabre or fantasy and fantastic with more centering
on reality and truth.
The
child appears ready for any and everything, but a tendency to be
easily hurt is close to the surface.
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There is typically, a real understanding of goodness and badness,
right and wrong.
The
child will express a belief that some actions (people) are bad and
some are good.
This
is generally a time when parents are noted for pronouncements of
good parenting in light of the behavior and compliance as well as
the good nature of the child in this stage.
Moral
reasoning is very black and white, with the focus primarily on self...the
reason to avoid doing wrong is to avoid being punished or viewed
as bad.
The
Golden Rule notion of going and saying to others what is good for
the self is very rudimentary, but in formation.
Children
often tattle and express: "That's not fair!"
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Busy, expansive and active age.
Being
less centered in the self, the child is ready for a real relationship
with someone other than family members-usually a "best friend."
The
relationship with at least one parent tends to be strong with the
child demanding to be personally valued and understood and tends
to express a need for closeness.
Sibling
relationships usually do not show much change. The new ability to
see anther's viewpoint does not usually extend to sibs, so fighting,
tattling and jealousy continue.
There
is a tendency for many children this age to experience a real understanding
of envy, and possessiveness.
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The child is often fascinated with real world animals, stars, science
in general.
Children
who are behind seem to be ready to consolidate and relearn tasks
missed. Review as exercises in assimilation and accommodation will
usually be appreciated.
The
child is firmly able to use concrete operations. Ability to take
successive transformations into account and still remain aware of
facts and ideas, even when making "detours."
Thinking
may be more logical.
Mental
isolation and reassemble of variables becomes possible.
There
is movement to a less egocentric view of life, world, others.
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